A MESSAGE FOR A MAN NAME HUSBAND

The first thing to remember is; WHY YOU WANT TO MARRIED TO THAT WOMAN?
       - Because you have slept with her?
       - Because you in love with her?
       - Because she is very beautiful?
       - Because you want to show your pride?
       - Because you know everybody must get married?
       - Because of no reason, it just happened!

Before you eat or drink, wife take a sip because she want to make sure, you drink the sweet cup of drink. She tries to be good in front of you eyes, why dont you praise her for what she has done?

She always remind you whether you have already stand for prayer or not, She want to make sure you can enter JANNAH, she loves you ooo husband, why you cannot see her manner?

When wife want you to sit together with her and children, because she want her children respect you as their father, why you cannot realize?

When wife cooks something for you, she waiting for your good words after you eat her cooking, She want to be praised by you as her husband, why it is very difficult to give good words for her?

She jealous?. Because she loves you very much. You as a husband cannot make somthing bad outside of the house as it is AMANAH between you and her, why you cannot say thank and respond to her jealous with honest!

Second thing to be kept in mind is ; SOMETIMES THERE WILL BE A TEST IN YOUR MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP, TO TEST BOTH LOVE LONG-LASTING,SO BE BRAVE AND MATURE IN FACING ALL THOSE TESTS


Let say, you wife does not want to cover her AURAH, her dignity, or she has a relatinship with another man, what you going to do? You just give her a divorce??
Dont you think that you have not fulfill your responsibility wisely in managing your marriage, your family.

YOU ARE THE LEADER MAN!..... You must teaching your wife the right and follow religion with knowledge, You are the man who loves her sincerely for the sake of ALLAH, so ALLAH will protect your marriage lasting

So, what you want to say about divorce?. Who is guilty?.  ACTUALLY IT JUST SHOWING YOUR WEAKNESSES AND COWARD,. AND REMEMBER THAT A COWARD HUSBAND, one of his foot already in HELL.

Prophet said: -


ثلاثة لا ينظر الله عز وجل إليهم يوم القيامة: العاق لوالديه, والمترجلة, والديوث. رواه أحمد والنسائي

Meaning: Three groups of Allah will not look (meaning no relief from punishment) they are in the Day of Judgment: The traitors to the parents, the men and women who resembled the man a coward "(Narrated by Ahmad & Al-Nasaie: Albanian confirm sohih: Ghayatul Maram, No. 278)


In an another hadith:

  ثلاثة قد حرم الله - تبارك وتعالى - عليهم الجنة: مدمن الخمر, والعاق, والديوث الذي يقر في أهله الخبث. رواه أحمد والنسائي.

Meaning: Three whom God has forbidden Paradise for him: people who are addicted to alcohol, the traitors to the parents and let Si Dayus disobedience committed by members of his family "(Narrated by Ahmad


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